they should do it. >> steve: the murphy brown syndrome. my husband fired four secretaries in the last year. each one seems like the perfect candidate, but he finds something wrong. then he complains he's stuck working without help but he fired them. nor or nuts? >> here is the thing, i had an employer once, married four times, getting married for the fifth time and he said here is the key to no one -- the first four, you swear it's them. yeah, the guy is crazy. right? he needs to stick with somebody 'cause it's not them. >> steve: nuts number two. >> gretchen: if off question, log on to our web site and e-mail dr. ablow your questions and he will answer them truthfully every week. always great to see you. >> good to see you, too. be well, or call me. >> steve: indeed. straight ahead, george w. bush revealing what he calls the real key to our recovery. guess what in both parties have it wrong. the president's former press secretary dana perino, that gal, joins us live. stick around ♪ the weather outside is frightful ♪ ♪ but the fire i